If you've never had a chart done, now is the time to discover what the planets have in store for you, learn for yourself  what your challenges may be or perhaps what  patterns you have established unknowingly,  when the planetary position indicates challenges and opposition, it may seem at times as if you are on an emotional roller coaster, my advice to you, you should take the time to examine the functions and placements, of your planets,  take that knowledge and work  on self, when we become aware of our strengths and weaknesses it often challenges us to evaluate our current life choices. We all want to meet our soul mates, but first we must surrender to divine love of self. Many of us are living this existence in unhealthy, non-nurturing relationships, no offense but, part of the problem is "US" which in turn is "everyone," if we truly don't know  what makes our soul sing, how can we expect to radiate divine love to others?